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Conflict Resolution: Make it a Priority

By Dr. Patty Ann Tublin on Dec 15 2011 • Filed under Balance,Business

Conflict Resolution in Business and Marriage means...(Photo: Sue Byford)In this post we are going to learn about conflict resolution skill #4 needed for success in business and life. Following is a quick re-cap of the conflict resolution skills discussed (in detail) during previous articles:

  1. acknowledge the conflict exists;
  2. communicate effectively about the conflict, and
  3. take personal responsibility for the conflict

Conflict resolution skill #4 is: resolving to make conflict resolution a priority.

Think about this for a moment. We all know people who seem to thrive on conflict; this is sad but true. It seems as if for every person who avoids conflict at all cost there is a person who never misses an opportunity to create it. Regardless of the circumstances which created the conflict, conflict cannot be resolved unless you make it a priority to resolve it.

In your relationships and your business you must be willing and determined to resolve conflict from the perspective of what is best for your business and what is in the long term interest of your relationship.

The mistake many people make is they fail to prioritize their business or relationship and get bogged down on the specifics of the conflict and who is “right” and who is “wrong.” Focusing on the minor details of an argument instead of focusing on what is at stake for the business or your relationship from a long-term perspective makes us run the risk of losing sight of the forest from the trees. When this happens, conflict remains unresolved and ill will is perpetuated.

Tenacity is an admirable quality when it provides resilience for learning something new. But when tenacity gets us stuck in a conflict, refusing to let go of it, it can be responsible for leaving our conflicts unresolved – which eventually destroys our relationships and the productivity of our business.

The next time you are faced with a business or relationship conflict that you are having difficulty letting go of or resolving, ask yourself this question: “Is maintaining the conflict worth your relationship or the productivity of your business?” Chances are you know the answer to this question. If you make it your priority, all conflicts are resolvable.


See also:

Conflict Resolution Success in Business & Marriage (for an overview and list of the five skills)

Conflict Resolution: Acknowledge the conflict exists (skill #1)

Conflict Resolution for Women in Biz: Communicate Effectively (skill #2)

Conflict Resolution for Women in Biz: Taking Responsibility (skill #3)


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